Is January "Divorce Month" Real or a Myth?

 Posted on January 08, 2025 in Divorce

Many of us have heard that January is known as the "divorce month." While there is some evidence to back this up, the months of January through March might more realistically be known as the "divorce season." One of the primary reasons January sees a spike in divorce rates is that many spouses are reluctant to file for divorce during the holiday season and may resolve to stay together until the holidays are over.

Taxes may also have a bearing on the January divorce spike, depending on whether filing as single or married is more advantageous. Some couples may choose to end the year married so they can get certain tax breaks when filing. Many people file for divorce at certain points in the year as a means of minimizing family and personal emotional pain. August often sees a spike in divorce rates, likely because it follows family vacations and the start of a new school year.

If a couple’s last child goes to college in August, there may no longer be the need to "stay together for the children." Regardless of when you choose to file for divorce, having a strong legal advocate in your corner can make the process so much easier. A Will County, IL divorce attorney can help you determine not only when to file for divorce but how to get through the coming months in the best way possible.

Why People Often File for Divorce in January

In addition to the reasons given above – getting through the holidays and for tax reasons – January often sees more divorces because it is the start of a new year. People are making New Year’s resolutions to improve their lives, and divorce may be how they intend to make that happen. A couple may have stayed together during the holidays to avoid spoiling them for their children.

Some couples may also come through the holidays with a strong resolve to never spend another holiday with their spouse. Timing may also be a factor. Some states have a mandatory six-month (or longer) waiting period, which can also influence the timing of divorce. In the state of Illinois, there is no waiting period if both parties agree to the divorce; however, if the divorce is contested, there is a six-month waiting period.

What Are the Primary Reasons for Divorce?

The reasons for a specific divorce do not change, regardless of when the divorce occurs. The most common reasons for divorce include:

• Infidelity
• Too much conflict or constant arguments
•  Getting married too young or too soon
• Financial hardships
• Disagreements regarding spending and saving
• Substance abuse
•  Domestic violence
•  Health issues of one spouse
• Religious differences
• Arguments regarding child-rearing decisions
• Family interference

If you have ever wondered whether those in certain professions are more likely than others to divorce, the answer is "absolutely."  Bartenders, flight attendants, and those working in the gaming industry have a much higher divorce rate. Massage therapists, dispatchers, correctional officers, and nurses follow closely. The professions with the lowest divorce rate include actuaries, physical scientists, medical and life scientists, clergy, software developers, physical therapists, optometrists, and chemical engineers.

Contact a DuPage County, IL Divorce Lawyer

Whether you choose to divorce in January or any other time of the year, it is important that you have knowledgeable legal assistance. Choosing a Naperville, IL divorce attorney from Law Office of Ronald L. Hendrix, P.C. can help ensure the best outcome possible for your divorce. Attorney Hendrix is a court-appointed mediator and holds a master’s degree in guidance and counseling in addition to his law degree. Divorce should not be any more difficult or lengthy than it needs to be. Call 630-355-7776 to schedule your free consultation.